What do your family argue about most on car journeys?
If it's choice of music, the windows being up or down or where everyone gets to sit then you're in good company according to a Virgin Trains survey of British parents.
After several car journeys that involved one or both children screaming for the entire time 😫 I'm always glad that we travel lots by train - and avoid the arguments! - so here's some ideas to make it as stress-free as possible this summer (including a tablet tip and top secret snack suggestion).
#ad #betterbytrain (photo is from our last UK holiday by train. We're off again in a few days so fingers crossed on the weather...)
Help, I need some book recommendations! What's the best thing you've read recently?
I think I've mentioned before but it has been an *embarassingly* long time since I've really read much, BUT, we're off on holiday next week and have also been trying out the new Amazon Fire 7 Tablet which is great for reading on, so I have no excuse really.
(You can also read a review of the tablet and some more of our favourite Amazon Appstore for Android apps here http://www.ababyonboard.com/family-apps-amazon-appstore/ )
#ad #Amazonapps #FireTablet #AmazonAppStore
Poor Princess Charlotte in such a stressful situation, but I really feel for Kate! There's nothing worse than your child having a tantrum in public when it feels like the whole world is watching, but I can't imagine what it's like when the whole world actually *is.*
P.S. What do you reckon she said to her to calm her so quickly?! My money is on either a) I have sweets in the change bag Or b) I'll let you watch Peppa Pig for as long as you want...
The school year is drawing to a close...HOW HAS IT GONE SO QUICKLY?! It seems like two minutes since I dropped her off for the first time, in her giant uniform (and then picked her up an hour later).
So to mark the end of Reception, here's 32 things you obsess about in the first year of primary school, from what exactly it is they do all day, to all the jacket potato and cheese lunches, socks, the magic of reading and what to do with the never-ending stream of 'artwork' and giant glittery structures made of cereal boxes and egg cartons that come home...sound at all familiar?
To all new mums, no-one expects you to look like Beyoncé...
Did everyone see Beyoncé's twin baby announcement photo? In light of the massive backlash around it, I've written about online criticism how there's no *right* way to be a new mum....and that it's OK to wear your pyjamas for weeks if you want but it's also fine to get dressed up and put on make-up, if you feel like it.
Family-friendly summer festivals! Who's been to one and would you recommend it for small-ish children (and their parents)?
(Photo is from the Crystal Palace Festival about five years ago...)
Is anyone still breastfeeding their toddler? We're still going strong at nearly three, which is something I NEVER thought I'd ever say when we started out first-time-round. Would love to hear other people's experiences!
Breastfeeding older children isn't something people really talk about much, so for Celebrate Breastfeeding Week I've written about things you should know, from having unlikely heroes to the high probability that most people will have now seen your boobs...
#celebratebreastfeeding #breastfeeding #bffriend17 #celebratebreastfeedingweek
E's school had the new intake of reception class in for their stay and play session this week...which is weird as I can't believe it was a year ago for us! http://www.ababyonboard.com/stay-and-play/ Does anyone have a pre-schooler starting school in September? How are you coping so far?!
We've been reading a lot of new children's books recently, so thought we would make a video review of us talking about them. It was during half term and both children were around - what could POSSIBLY go wrong?! http://www.ababyonboard.com/reading-new-childrens-books-video/
Blackout blinds? You had ONE JOB...
It is hotter than an oven with the thermostat stuck on ‘roasting’, in a furnace, on the sun, wrapped up snugly in hell* (* just in case no-one had noticed) so obviously the glorious pre-schooler dress code of choice = wellies, knitted hats and tights.
You can’t find where you stashed the sun hats but you *can* find the ‘other’ matching glove that’s been lost all winter.
And your middle name might as well be ‘put your sun hat back on!’ As you say it so often.
22 other signs that you're a mum in summer http://www.ababyonboard.com/signs-youre-mum-summer/
(An old post, but one that feels like it will be relevant till the end of time...anyone else still recovering from bedtime?) #scorchio #heatwave
Picking this gappy-toothed girl up later to take her to vote with me. We walked to school singing Sister Suffragette which is our Election Day earworm. GO AND VOTE EVERYONE! 💪🏻 And take your children, too. I know everyone's probably had it up to their eyeballs with politics, but here's a really quick (promise) post about why it's so important, *especially* for your children: http://www.ababyonboard.com/votes-women-men-everyone-whos-registered-vote/ (especially the final point #votesforwomen)
#vote2017 #votelabour #GE2017 #Electionday
Does anyone else ever have…PLEASE SAY YES because I know it can’t just be me…those moments when you realise that the small children in your house belong to you and you’re the one in charge? Anyone?!
Here's all the reasons I don't feel nearly responsible enough to be a mum of two, from my secret crushes to buying ridiculous things and never knowing where anything is...to all the rest: http://www.ababyonboard.com/search-responsible-adult-reasons-dont-feel-old-enough/
Something not-so-great has happened, *again*
Related - if anyone sees a Barbie at the IKEA Croydon branch, please let me know...
Morning! It's a Bank Holiday...it's not raining ☀️ ... AND there's no school run 🎉🎉🎉
If you need any activity inspiration, here's our favourite things to do in London with small children:
Plus our favourite parks:
http://www.ababyonboard.com/a-guide-to-the-best-parks-in-south-east-london/ (or there's always IKEA...)
Pretty exciting news for all Do You Know fans (and their children...) https://twitter.com/CBeebiesHQ/status/867430512004145155 Do you think they will have a special episode for the parents and answer all of these http://www.ababyonboard.com/how-does-it-work-do-you-know/ ?
Do your children love books AND a healthy dose of screen time? We've been checking out something that combines the two in the shape of new children's reading app The Library of Miss Gadish...and I'm giving away an iPad to celebrate. Find out more and enter here:
#win #competition #giveaway
Do you ever feel like you never have time for anything, as a mum? (I do, ALL THE TIME).
Here's 24 things I definitely don't have time for as a mum, from chatty hairdressers to parental judgement and going to bed early...and three things I definitely do have time for..what else would you add?
It's six years since I found out I was pregnant for the first time (six years!) and although that seems like a long, long time, I still often feel like I'm winging it when it comes to parenting (I think everyone feels like that at times...don't they?!)
So here's six parenting skills I am yet to master, featuring Pinterest, parenting on hangovers and dealing with *that* type of bedtime...😫😴😴
What was the standard of postnatal care like in hospital when you gave birth? Were you given a bed? Was your partner allowed to stay? Did you have help and support for things like breastfeeding if you needed it? I had the girls at two different London hospitals and had completely different experiences both times. The first was chaotic and stressful, the second was relaxed and wonderful and it made SUCH a difference (the doctors and midwives were brilliant both times, though). I think it's such an important, overwhelming time where you need as much help and support as possible, which shouldn't really depend on where you live or the time of year.
So I really like the sound of this mumsnet.com campaign calling for better postnatal care for all; they're going to work with parents and the big healthcare agencies to see what can be done to improve services for all: https://www.mumsnet.com/campaigns/better-postnatal-care/the-mumsnet-campaign-for-better-postnatal-care
Did you know it's World Maternal Mental Health Day? It's such an important topic that affects *so* many new mums.
So I've written about weird ten things no-one ever tells you about your mind and body once you've given birth (might be familiar...) http://www.ababyonboard.com/10-weird-things-no-one-tells-body-pregnancy/ - And most importantly how you shouldn't be afraid to ask for help during this time if you need it. #maternalmhmatters
Did *anyone* get a bank holiday lie-in...anyone? We have, unsurprisingly, been up a while 😴😴😴 ☕️ ☕️ ☕️
(This might sound familiar! http://www.ababyonboard.com/things-youll-know-child-early-riser/)
It's the long weekend! 🎉🎉🎉Is anyone planning an Easter egg hunt over the next few days? We had a very special one this week...and suspect we will have at least two more (at least!)
Make sure you read this post with five tips for creating a perfect Easter egg hunt (including lots of Cadbury UK chocolate has anyone tried the mini Daim eggs? Or the Oreo ones?!) 🐰
Are you in London over the Easter holiday? And do you have dinosaur-obsessed children? Then the new dino-themed T Rex Grill at Natural History Museum, London might be for you...make sure you read our review http://www.ababyonboard.com/natural-history-museum-london-trex-grill/ Benugo 🐲
These guys 😍It's totally worth every cold cup of tea and lost hour of sleep, every time you feel all the emotions, all at once and every moment of worry / exasperation, isn't it? Had a pretty special 24 hours in London for Mother's Day and we are all either asleep or exhausted now 😴😴😴Hope everyone's had a good weekend?
Bye bye baby days 👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻...all of a sudden it seems they're firmly behind us, which is very bittersweet. So I'm looking at all the things I *won't* miss about them http://www.ababyonboard.com/bye-baby-days-five-reasons-wont-miss/ from the giant baby bag of stuff through to never knowing what's wrong and the long days of doom, when you've been up since the dawn of time, everyone's crying and you've already eaten lunch. At 9am.
Who else is up FAR TOO EARLY for a weekend? (Lie in, what lie in...?!) This might be familiar: http://www.ababyonboard.com/things-youll-know-child-early-riser/ 😫😫😴😴☕️☕️☕️☕️
Happy International Women's Day! I asked the 5-year-old what the best thing about being female was, and she said 'Going to school and getting to vote.' 😍😍😍 Here's an old post but one that's relevant today - on powerful women and how we need to look to the future http://www.ababyonboard.com/powerful-women-look-to-the-future/ #IWD2017 #IWD #InternationalWomensDay
What motherhood secrets do you wish your best friend would have told you? As lots of my friends are having babies at the moment, I've written about the type of real advice about motherhood only your friends would tell you, from the horrors of day three through to having the wine and the fact you probably *won't* drop the baby http://www.ababyonboard.com/advice-to-my-friend-the-new-mum/ (PS teeny tiny baby Florence! Enough to make me broody. Don't tell my husband...)
I love spring flowers (who doesn't?!) 🌷🌸🌼🌷💐but generally just stick them in a vase and hope for the best (I'm always jealous of people with magical flower skills, and people who can keep plants vaguely alive). So it was brilliant to go along to an M&S flower masterclass last week with its head florist (and none other than M&S ambassador Joanna Lumley) to learn some tips on making flowers look fabulous and all about the Fairtrade and homegrown offerings for Mother's Day. Here's my post
(and answers to all the Joanna Lumley questions everyone was messaging me!)
Did everyone make it through World Book Day?! I never realised it was such a massive thing among parents! We actually escaped dressing up at school (they had to take in a clue instead) but Florence dressed up for nursery (she went as the Worst Witch, which made a change from her usual outfit of...pyjamas 🙈) On a book-themed tangent, I'm over on Junior Magazine talking about 20 modern classic children's books http://www.juniormagazine.co.uk/books/20-modern-classic-childrens-books-for-world-book-day-20/20983.html (including the one that makes me cry *every* time!) #worldbookday
Isn't naptime brilliant? The chance to sit down in the quiet and drink hot tea; bliss. And then someone rings the doorbell and wakes the baby...WHY OH WHY? http://www.ababyonboard.com/21-irritating-things-that-inevitably-happen-during-naptime/ - here's the irritating things that only happen during naptime
Who else loves the Miffy books? I was really sad to read about the death of Dick Bruna, the author / illustrator of Miffy. They were a childhood favourite and both of my children love them too (a little too much in the case of one of them...) I've blogged about my favourite Miffy memories: http://www.ababyonboard.com/thanks-miffy-memories/ - and this is a card my mother-in-law sent us last week 😍
Anyone stuck for #halfterm activity ideas? We *loved* the Natural History Museum yesterday - here's some more ideas for things to do in #London this week: http://www.ababyonboard.com/best-free-things-for-kids-toddlers-in-london/
Had a super romantic day hanging out in the company of this guy and his friends 🦎🐊🐲🐉 - we braved the Natural History Museum during half term to try out the 👌🏻 new @benugouk T Rex Grill. We got to check out all the dinosaurs which was all kinds of brilliant and everyone loved it. We're still too full for our Valentine's Day meal though so will probably drink wine on the sofa while trying to stay awake, which sounds brilliant to me...any romantic plans...anyone? 💐
What's the going rate for the tooth fairy where you are? I had absolutely NO clue so was frantically googling this when someone's first tooth fell out just before Christmas (it was completely unexpected, especially as it was in the middle of her school play). Read my new blog post: http://www.ababyonboard.com/the-going-rate-for-the-tooth-fairy/ - all about the questions I had about the tooth fairy fee and the full circle of teething 💋In other news, it's HALF TERM - no school run for a week = 🎉🎉🎉
I LOVED Beyonce's glorious Instagram pregnancy announcement but according to an article in The Independent she's not portraying pregnancy correctly...http://www.ababyonboard.com/theres-no-right-way-to-be-pregnant/ - what does everyone think?
Parenting is ALL about the little things, isn't it? (It really is - my house is awash with these little guys). It feels like I've spent most of the week feeling like 😱😫😳🙄😖😡 about the state of the world but haven't been able to go out and protest about it because of looking after my two little guys. So I've written a post about alternative, smaller ways you can protest when you have small children: http://www.ababyonboard.com/alternative-ways-to-protest-when-youre-a-parent-of-small-children/ - that hopefully have the potential to make a big difference. Fingers crossed...
Florence vs the fish...spent the day with this little one, which included two playdates, playgroup and an epic nap she would only make on me. I'm currently 😴 after getting her sister to sleep, while she's wide awake downstairs, forcing her dad to watch Our Family again, where do toddlers get their energy from?! P.S. new blog post http://www.ababyonboard.com/just-found-out-youre-pregnant/ - for anyone who's just found out they're pregnant 🤰
Me: 'Why don't you hold these flowers and I'll take a photo?' Florence: 'OK!' *three seconds later* 'Haha! I'm hiding!' Totally outfoxed by a two-year-old...again. 🦊🌷We're all very excited about our weekend away to celebrate a certain someone's very significant birthday...pretty sure one or both children will have accidentally disclosed ALL surprises to him before the big day though 😫😂
Blue Monday nonsense or not, I think all parents of small children know that some days are MUCH worse than others...mainly due to lack of sleep, teething, rain, general all-round grizzle, lack of sleep..need I go on? So I've written about 51 easy ways to shake off the parenting blues (from listening to Shake it Off through to *the* end-of-the-day fail-safe). Read it here: http://www.ababyonboard.com/shake-off-the-parenting-blues/ - would love to hear any more ideas!
When your sister is at school and you can play with her favourite thing, the world's best colouring set (how amazing are all the colours? I would have LOVED this as a child). You can't see Florence's face but it looks like this 😆, she is so happy. We are currently holed up at home on our own mini snow day - school is on but it's too icy for us to go outside.
Is anyone applying for primary schools this month? Seems very odd to think that was us last year! I've written about lessons I've learned from the first term of primary school (mainly - *the* strongest reason to pick a school and all about the weird world of phonics books!) Read it here: http://www.ababyonboard.com/learned-first-term-of-primary-schol/ P.S. Might have to sack my Instagram husband, the 4-y-o took this photo for me (clearly, he'll be devastated 😂)
Back among all my old toys (at my parent's house for Christmas so of course all the old Fisher Price people are out. The girls are loving it!) About to drink lots of wine and watch terrible TV in an attempt to ignore the *mammoth* amount of wrapping...urgh. Also have a new very Christmassy blog post about festive things everyone loves I'm late to the party on, including mulled things and novelty drinks http://www.ababyonboard.com/late-christmas-party/ (oh and HAPPY CHRISTMAS! 🎅🏻🎄🎉)
Who has had a cup of tea this morning already? 😍☕️ - and is there anything worse than your first cup of the day being anything less than amazing?! I've written about our morning routine and something Twinings Tea UK sent me to help make it perfect http://www.ababyonboard.com/tea-morning-routine-english-strong-breakfast-tea/ #ad
Looking for a new pram? We've been busy testing out the Graco Baby Modes 3 Lite Trio...and finding slightly alternative uses for the cup holder http://www.ababyonboard.com/graco-modes-3-lite-trio-review/ #ad #generationgraco
The Radio 4 Women's Hour Power List was published today, did anyone see it? It's a list of seven women from the past seven years who have had the most powerful impact on the world and includes Margaret Thatcher and Bridget Jones (!)...It made me REALLY angry, so I wrote about why we need to look to the future for the sake of powerful women: http://www.ababyonboard.com/powerful-women-look-to-the-future/ #whpowerlist
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